Do you still talk to the person who took your virginity?
Technically, James, that person does not exist. However, there have been two very important men in my life in that aspect, one of whom I am in NO contact with(for very personal reasons), the other and I have drifted apart and are rarely in contact, but there is no hostility.
How important do think sex is to a healthy relationship?
Incredibly. It’s not and can’t be the most important aspect though, because all of that heat and passion eventually fades to a dull roar at least, and you have to have a foundation of companionship and friendship or you won’t last.
what do you think about sex without love?
It exists. Sex WITH love is obviously incredible, but for me, what’s most important is comfort and trust. (Anyone who I’m comfortable with and trust, though, is probably someone I already love.)